Wednesday, January 14, 2015

PULL EX Back Strategy: How to Pull Your Ex Back Without Looking Desperate

How To Really Pull Your EX Back Without Looking Desperate (Before They Are Claimed by Someone Else)

Sometimes applying a little psychology is all that's required to get the ball
rolling in your favour to start winning back your desired but stubborn Ex!
If you haven't given up on getting your Ex back, read on.

Now this will make your ex go crazy for you and want to get back with you.

In fact it's highly likely that your ex will CHASE you around once you follow
this advice. So why not make your ex beg you for attention (works a treat!).

I am going to show you a rock solid technique you can use right away
and get instant results. This technique is so effective that your ex will
start missing you and will desperately desire you again right away!

Let's Get Started: 

Okay, so do you know that humans normally have a tendency to take
things for granted?

We don't really value the air we breathe but we only understand how
important it is when we run out of it. Similarly your ex doesn't really
value you at the moment because by chasing them around you have
already shown them that you ... NEED them!

But note, it's a fact that the pain of loss is far greater than the 
pleasure of gain. Humans would do anything to save what they
already have instead of gaining something new. We don't know the
rationale for this tendency but this is how humans normally behave.

Therefore, what you are going to do now is create a sense of LOSS
in your ex's mind where he / she would feel constant emptiness and a
sense of anxiety. Pretty much like what you're experiencing right now!

Okay here is what you need to do. Get in touch with your ex via
SMS or E-MAIL So why SMS or E-MAIL? Well, for the simple
reason that your ex will always attend to your SMS or E-MAIL
even when they have been trying to avoid you.

This is the Message You Must Write in the Text:

"Want to tell you that you were right about the breakup... I guess we do need space! Amazingly something wonderful happened recently... I guess when things happen they happen for a reason. You know what? ......"

Now this might sound incomplete with the final "You know what?" line.

But that is the big trick here. Leaving it incomplete will raise your
ex's level of curiosity and he / she will get very eager to know the
rest of the message. Don't be surprised if your ex calls you right away.

Now this is where you need to be very careful. You should not return
or attend their phone call right away. It is very important that you must
follow through with my advice in my manual "Pull your ex back".

Why would this tactic work? Firstly by sending them this message, 
you are taking the very action that would arouse their desire for you
once again.

You are indirectly telling them: "You don't need them anymore".
This would seriously bother them as you have just indicated that they
no longer have a hold on you. This would create a massive feeling of loss.
Just imagine the thoughts racing through their mind, wondering on
how you could be so over them, and ... so sudden;y?!

"You are telling them that the breakup didn't bother you that
much". The fact that it didn't bother you that much will bother
them. They would find it hard to swallow the fact that you got
over them so fast. Check out how you yourself would handle such
news if the shoe was on the other foot, and you'll see that it is 
human nature to THINK and FEEL this way.

By telling them that something wonderful recently happened
in your life they would fear that maybe you had already found
"SOMEONE ELSE". This will trigger their fear of LOSS to
unbearable levels. And at the same time the fear that you have
found someone else will emotionally push them to want to know
more and more about you and about your evolving situation.

The Next Very Important Step - Read Carefully:

Now you will see magic unfold right in front of your eyes.
Listen very closely here. The guy / girl who was trying to
avoid you all this time will literally be begging to have your
attention from this point on.

After you have sent the above mentioned message your ex
will probably call you or send you a message to know the rest.

In this case tell them that you have something important to
say and would like to get on the phone to which your ex
cannot really refuse since he / she is already hopping up and
down with curiosity to know the rest of your message.

Once you are on the phone with them, make small conversation
and then tell them that you have something really important you
would like them to know. And then hesitate!

Say: "Ummm! Well! I don't know how to say this...I guess I shouldn't tell you. But..." And then go quiet and stay quiet!

At this point your ex would probably try to force you to divulge all
but hesitate more and then say, "Sorry, I don't think I should tell you,
I gotta go!" And then hang up. That’s it, no more and no less.

Don't Drag the Conversation. Keep it Short and Hang Up.

Now do you know what you have done? Well, surprise surprise!

Before this your ex was just curious but now he / she would be
burning with an intense desire to know what you really wanted
to tell them.

They would find it hard to relax and get over the fact that you
had something to say but never said it. And why would this
work? Well humans have a tendency to desire what they can't
have. And that desire turns into a burning obsession with time.

There are some great and true sayings which go like this:

"Silence is Golden." 
"The first one to talk, loses!"
"Keep them hungry and they will keep coming back!".

So now you have made your ex RAVENOUS and he or she
will keep coming back for more until you satiate their hunger.

If you are really excited by now, good! But wait...let me strongly
warn you here. This trick will work surprisingly well for you.

Doing this does not mean things will be smooth from this point on.

This is NOT a game. There is a real risk that if you wait too long your ex may sooner or later, actually find comfort in someone else's arms. Whether they find solace intentionally or otherwise the consequence of this is that eventually you WILL LOSE the privilege of their once, exclusive love, attention and committment (which will be given to someone else, someone who will replace you completely) ... perhaps forever and ever!

If you are serious about getting your ex back, you do not want to lose this exclusivity, because once you lose this, once the barn door is opened, and your Dream Horse bolts away ... it's likely to be a case of "game over" for this relationship or at the very least, present you with BIG reconciliation challenges because now you will encounter some (very?) serious competition...

So it is recommended that you strictly follow the advice on the next page,
which will divulge my Pull-Your-Ex-Back tips on how to proceed next:

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