Tuesday, September 17, 2013

I Lost Love: Dealing With the End of a Relationship

Were They Your Reason, Season or Lifetime Love?

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This article is not for everyone. For some people there can only ever be one person or soul mate in their lifetime and in many cases they seem to know and pick their future partners early in life, for example, couples who have been together since childhood, or early school days, etc.  For others, they can find true love several times in their life, and these relationships may last a long time eg.10 years or more before the couple go their separate ways. 



Reason, Season, Lifetime: Created Just For You!
 


I always find myself thinking about events where I lost love, and trying to learn from those experiences in order to do better next time, and move on with a greater understanding of love than before. There are stages in my life where I lost love, and when this happened I truly felt as if my entire life was over. However, each and every time that I lost love in the past, it turns out that I was capable of moving on with time and patience.

I think that we all have to remember that there is a spontaneous lifespan to love just like with every other emotion that we experience. I have found it important to realize this in every event that I lost love in the past. As we get older and more experienced, the lifespan of our relationships and our loves is capable of increasing. Each time that I lost love, I realize the lifespan of the relationship was longer than the last, or the results of the relationship were greater or more meaningful than before.

One of the experiences that you may have is an event where a lost love is destined to be rekindled. Sometimes in events where I lost love, it turned out later that some of these relationships could be brought back to life through dedication and hard work. Rekindling a relationship after I lost love was never simple, but it was often worthwhile in situations where I still cared about the person that I had lost.

Everyone experiences situations where they want to yell "I lost love!", and these break-ups often seem like the end of the world. The truth is, however, that they are not the end of the world, and you will move on. Every time that I lost love, it turns out there was something better waiting for me, and I simply had to be patient and understanding while I waited for it to come along and take me by surprise.

If I wrote relationships off each and every time I lost love, then I would have missed out on a lot of truly wonderful experiences that I am now quite thankful for having. Losing love is often difficult to deal with, but it is well worth getting over and moving on past it when you consider the other, future loves that you will encounter in your lifetime, and the wonderful relationships arising from these.

Next time you feel like it's the end of the world because you have lost a loved one to a break-up, just remember that when a Door closes, a new Window opens...step out into the Sunshine. It could be that the relationship you had was NOT the one you were meant to have, that there is someone out there who is more compatible with you.

Your prior relationship was a Gift from the Universe, a gift with a finite time-period - people who came into your life when you needed them, and who were not meant to stay. So don't be bitter, don't get mad, be grateful that you had them, for as long as you did. When you have gratitude and appreciation for what you have been given, the Universe will bless you with more. Why would the Universe bless anyone with more if they could not appreciate what was initially given?  Would you give a child 3 scoops of ice-cream if he cannot even handle one?

When you have an Attitude of Gratitude you will attract the many who are also looking for True Love just as much as you are. Open yourself up to these relationships and you will truly benefit in the end ... by attracting and inviting Love to come into your Heart. So stoke the Fire and keep your Hearth warm and welcoming for that Day will surely come...just when you least expect it.

I leave you with these thoughts and a beautiful poem, video and lyrics to reflect on:

Don't brood. Get on with living and loving. You don't have forever.  
Leo Buscaglia

Poem: Reason, Season, or Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.


When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that Love is blind but Friendship is clairvoyant.



— Author Unknown 


A Thousand Years Lyrics

Heart beats fast
Colors and promises
How to be brave?
How can I love when I'm afraid to fall
But watching you stand alone?
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow

One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

Time stands still
Beauty in all she is
I will be brave
I will not let anything take away
What's standing in front of me
Every breath
Every hour has come to this

One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

[Chorus:]
I have died everyday waiting for you
Darling don't be afraid I have loved you
For a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you
Time has brought your heart to me
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more  


 
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