Here is a question that guys have all
the time. Is writing letters to get your ex back really a good idea? It
is indeed, provided you don’t “drop the ball” in your letter writing!
Take heed gentlemen!
There are many people that write letters, text messages, e-mails and just about every other form of text-based correspondence that you can think of on a daily basis.
Many of these people will resort to that form of communication when trying to get an ex-lover to fall in love with them again but does it work?
There are many people that write letters, text messages, e-mails and just about every other form of text-based correspondence that you can think of on a daily basis.
Many of these people will resort to that form of communication when trying to get an ex-lover to fall in love with them again but does it work?
There is something to be said about
writing a letter, particularly one written in your own hand. In this
day and age, many people break up over the phone, over an instant
messaging program, through mail or even by text-message and as a result,
there is no closure so people tend to hold grudges. They say that the
most honest way to break up with someone is in person, so surely this
should work the opposite way, that is, if you want to get your ex back?
Absolutely, however it is all in what
you say, how you say it and when you send it and how you offer it to
her. Some of the simple guidelines you can follow range from using
neutral, soft colored stationery, a flair pen that compliments your own
hand writing, and the time and place you choose to sit down and write
it. Remember that this is probably going to be a keepsake of hers, so
make sure that you write from your heart, addressing her in a manner
befitting, i.e. “to my darling Jacqueline”, call her “the love of your
life” and start the letter off by telling her why you are writing to
her. Remind her of the reasons you fell in love with her, how much she
changed your life for the better and how you cannot imagine living
without her. Recall some of the special memories you shared, and all
the qualities of hers that you adore.
You need to make a concerted effort in
making an impression and you need to sound sincere and genuine at the
same time. If you are not sure of how or what to write, do some
research on the Internet or visit a library. There are many ways to
find inspiration. If she has a favorite author or poet, find a quote of
his/ hers that suits the message you are trying to convey, or better yet, subscribe to our Mailing LIst and see the Funtastic Ideas we have for writing
a romantic letter and other love tips that will make their heart melt!
When closing up on completion of your
letter make sure it is neatly folded and put it into a matching envelope
with her address on the outside, if you are intending to mail it and
even if you do hand deliver it to her doorstop and slip it under the
door. Then you need to be patient and wait. If you have heeded my
advice above, I can assure you, you will get the response you desire so
make sure you are ready for the reunion.
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting
Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how
to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at
Getting Her Back.